Teenager : Intrinsic-Extrinsic (Story 2 - Part-3)

The following story will be displayed here in three parts - 

Part-1 (Published on 11 July, 2015)

Part-2 (Published on 19 July, 2015)

Part-3 (To be Published on 26 July, 2015)

A few days later …… today he called me to meet some where and asked me for Rs. 2000 again. I told him, " I can't arrange the money this time. I have no source this time. But he was obstinate at his demand, got enraged  and went back leaving me stranded in the park. After some time, he called me and asked whether  I could come at his home. I could not refuse and went to his home. It was very big and well- furnished.   There was nobody at that point of time. He took me inside his  room and offered me cold drink.  I was overjoyed to see his affluence. After having a few sips, I felt giddiness and lost my conscience soon. When I came to my senses, I found  myself dirobbed and hoaxed. I couldn't believe. I had been be guiled so easily by the guy whom I loved so much and trusted blindfoldedly. I came back  home quietly as shobhit had lost in deep slumber. After that I didn't get any call from him. He never tried to meet me again. He didn't pick my phone, Today I saw him strolling  with some other girl in the market . “Now I don't want to live. I have betrayed my parents and breached their trust. I have also betrayed my best friend Neha. I can't bear all this. Mama, Papa, Neha please forgive  me. I am going to end my life any time, any day."

Neha being a prudent girl somehow saved her friend but how many Priyas  would be there who have either lost their lives or have lost their interest in life. Why does this happen so often? Sometimes revelations come and many times remain obscure. Teenagers become the victims of such incidents invariably. Once again the need to make the teenagers aware of such incidents comes out  to fore front. Teenagers being ardent flyers, full of zeal and zest always suppose themselves to be fire flies  who don't need light from any other source. They are always over confident regarding their decisions and that's where they are proved wrong. They think they are right in whatever they do, wherever they  go? But virtually they are novices who have gathered some knowledge of worldy affairs going around either from friends (their major source of information) or from Cinema they  frequently watch, and which act as the major store house of knowledge for them. They become prematurely matured. That's where the problem starts. Many a time they find themselves gripped in awkward situations where they prove their matchless absurdity and fall in "No Way's Trap" that leads to no where.
Here parents are also to be blame as it is they who are first preceptors and well-wishers of their children and it is their due responsibility to make their wards aware of the pros and cons and the adversaries life in and around their world. Talking about sex  to Teenagers is not easy and not advised either but making your children aware of the filthiness prevailing in the society is mandatory and that too by ways of illustrations and incidents and it may come hardy. Teenagers should be told about the Do’s and Don'ts they should keep in mind while they are out with friends  or strangers and  even relatives and the possible consequences if they ever stray from their paths. Both boys and girls should be given equal importance to their queries and parents should never prevaricate or equivocate in dealing with both as they are in the closest vicinity to both of their children. They find themselves in comfort zone with their parents. If their inquisitveness and curiosity about sexology is apprised at home, they wouldn't look out for someone else. Mothers should take their teenage girls in confidence and  fathers, their teen age boys and should remain free, frank and open to their “Teenage Queries”. That's where lies the key to safe, secure and versatile growth of their children devoid of unwanted, extrinsic wear, tear and fear.

How To Understand Children's Psychology

As a mother, all women have great responsibility towards their children. Children are future of our country. So, we would we careful for them. Whenever we get angry before them and scold them, they observe our behavior and realize that it is also a way to express feelings and give us in return whenever they want to make their wish fulfill at any cost. So rather to get angry or scold them we should understand their problems and discuss it with them. Tell the consequences of circumstances so that they might know about the seriousness. Children are innocent. If we listen them from starting and solve their problems patiently, definitely they will not be misguided. Now a days It is very important for every parents especially for mother that they should maintain a friendly relationship with their children. If you are a good friend they surely will come to you and share their problems. So anger is not the solution of everything but we should tackle our children's arrogance with love and affection.
Sometimes they become so arrogant and rigid instead of scolding them we should know the causes behind it. It would be better if we think broadly and try to find reason asap causes drastic and destructive change in them.

Know About Girls

• Girls are tidy  and keep their belongings carefully. Systematic and well arranged. They are sensible and gullible by nature.
• Girls mostly prefer to talk about their gadgets, outfits, brand, their beloved ones, their experiences about life.
• They find happiness in very tiny things and appear childlike by their nature but usually are sensible and handle critical situation by their reasoning power.
• They believe the person completely whom she loves whereas her husband, children, parents, sibling, friend or anyone else.
• They are ambitious, focused to their target, hardworking and intelligent. They know what they are doing.
• In MNC's, they are giving their 100% to enhance the output. They are strongly determined and dedicated towards their responsibilities.
• Their are playing dual role as Housewife at home and a good employee in office perfectly.
• Even though they are good sports women as well as a good warrior on the battlefield.
• Sensitivity and sensibility both characteristics are found in girls.
• They are one of the best creation of the world who holds the half part of the population. 
• They are better half for her husband who has taken half of the responsibility happily.  

Teenager : Intrinsic-Extrinsic (Story 2 - Part-2)

The following story will be displayed here in three parts - 

Part-1 (Published on 11 July, 2015)

Part-2 (Published on 19 July, 2015)

Part-3 (To be Published on 26 July, 2015)

She stopped but didn't look at me. I asked her about the exam. She didn't reply. I again asked, what's the matter? Is anything wrong? Are you O.K? why didn't you pick my phone yesterday? I was feeling so sick. But she didn't utter a single word. I again asked her, ”Is anything wrong with you? Tell me. But she didn't speak and went away to her home. I didn't like her attitude. For a next few days, I didn't talk to her too thinking it was she who was at fault not me and waited for her daily after school time. But neither she talked to me nor accompanied me way back home.

I was perplexed at the gravity of situation, and was not able to make out the scene  behind the screen. That evening I received a call from her mother. She also asked me the matter regarding the same. She narrated me the similar tale as was happening  with me. And asked me to come home. Now I sensed some foul play in the story. I decided to go  to her in her absence when she had gone to her tuition. Her mother talked to me in detail about the change she had noticed in Priya. She also asked me whether I know something about that. I was in a fix what to do. Just then I reminded her mother of her diary as I know but she didn't know that Priya used to write a diary. Some how we found  her diary. I read it excitedly but soon my expressions turned dismal. Diary read, Today I am very happy as Shobhit, the most handsome guy of our area has proposed me. I am so happy!!!!!!

Many girls were there in queue but I am the luckiest one. Next day ……. Today I went to see a movies with him. I bunked my school. We also went to a restaurant and  had a lot of fun. One  more thing,  we had a smo … o .. tch… I enjoyed the blissful moments with him. Next day …. He was looking worried over something. Perhaps he had lost around Rs. 2000 somewhere and he had to pay the electricity bill. I promptly offered my help. After all he was my boy friend.

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Teenager -Intrinsic-Extrinsic (Story 2 -Part-1)

The following story will be displayed here in three parts - 

Part-1 (Published on 11 July, 2015)

Part-2 (To be Published on 19 July, 2015)

Part-3 (To be Published on 26 July, 2015)

Part -1

Hi ! I am Neha. I have a friend named Priya. She used to be a jovial fellow once. Smiling face, glittering eyes, witty, having great sense of  humour, an  extrovent who used  to play pranks on all her friends without hurting their sentiments. She was good at both studies and sports and thus, liked equally by friends and teachers. It was she in whose captaincy, our school won zonal Badminton champion ship.

We used to meet daily and spent our time leisurely in gossips. Though I, being short tempered and fastidious, used to stop talking many a time at trifles but she never minded.  Instead she kept persuading me all the time and never showed any signs of indignation even I reprimanded her many a time. We both lived at some distance from each other but that was far from preventing us to see each other daily. One day I went to school and during recess, when I looked for her as she was not in some other section, I came to know she had not come to school that day. I got disappointed as we used to keep off the same day simultaneously what ever  be the reason.
After school, I didn't get time to go to her as our exams were going to start the very next day. I reached my home and called her by phone but she didn't pick it.  I kept trying for quiet sometime but in vain. I didn't know what to do as I had never faced such a grim situation ever before. I was feeling uneasy. Next day in the school, after exam I saw her.  She was moving along without paying any attention to the surroundings. I called her from behind............................. To Be Continued..........

............Part-2 (To be Published on 19 July, 2015)............Keep Checking........