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Wednesday, April 22, 2015

TEENAGERS : INTRINSIC-EXTRINSIC (Emotional Touch)

 What is emotion?
The literary meaning of emotion is an instinctive feeling as opposed to reasoning.
“Emotion is the complex psychophysiological experience of an individual’s state of mind as interacting with all elements of their environment”, which is a  we-explained definition given in encyclopedia.
Emotions can show your deep joy or anger. They can easily show your mental condition. Emotions have the ability to express even without in reeds. They are also useful in predicting our own behavioure as well as of other’s The real happiness for any individual when he feels content and satisfied. The true feeling comes when our needs are met, particularly our emotional needs.
Sometimes, all our needs are fulfilled but still we are not satisfied. The satisfaction comes when we have place in our heart and our emotional needs are fulfilled.
Evolution is one of the creators of advanced emotions. Evolution gave rise to society. It gave rise to various factors and individual’s characteristics. Society is the outcomes of evolution which is bonded with emotions.
If we go through the real world of today. We can easily judge, if anybody knows about the turn emotion. Emotions for them just correspond to their own internal feeling and need.
The generation knows about its own needs, its satisfaction point, everything for them. But, does anyone cores about the emotions of others rather than themselves?
There are only certain people in the world who think about others, have intense feeling for their loved ones. What we call society? Group of people living together with the bond of love and care. But, our society has been turned to such a place where selfishness has its grip!
Everyone is busy in fullfilling its needs and want to shine like northern star. They do not have enough time to spend with their family rather than they are busy playing games on laptop or listening music on their new versione dipods. They are so much busy in their lifestyle that they do not have even a single moment to share with their parents. But they have enough time to spend hours in positng scraps to friends on orkut. We can say, it is an outcome of technology. But technology does not teach us to forget all the emotions of others and forget out responsibilities and becomes selfish. Technology does not even teach us to forget all pins and sufferings which our parents went through when we were growing.
Still there are some people who understand and deeply feel the emotions of others. Sometimes these people disappoint themselves because the world considers being emotional is an exemplary of failure, disgust and dissatisfaction, an uncertainty to stand and fluorish. Consideration says that your emotional behaviour would make you lose everything in life!
People with great sense of understanding and feeling or emotional people are considered as fragile and one day they themselves would be the reason of their disappointment. It is because of the practical and selfish life of modern world, where there is no place for emotions to exist no doors to enter the morals no doors for care and share and finally emotional people face the disappointment.
If we do not consider the practical life of world and just close our eyes and feel from our heart, if a person is purely able to identify with another’s feeling and feels the same pain because he is emotioanlly putting himself in the place of another, how will he disappoint himself?
The disappointment is not due to their emotional behaviour rather than inaccurate view of reality, because the world seems to arise out of their expectations or demdns, about how they think the world should be or how they think people should act.
Due to the duality of modern would, people who are emotional think that their emotional behaviour would make them face various obstacles in achieving their goals, their behaviour would be a hindrance to their success.
These people understand wide range of emotions of others and thereby have a better chance of felfilling them. If these people are effective at listening to the emotional troubles of others, they are better able to help them, feel, understand importance and cares about others. So, how can their emotional behaviour touch failure?
So, we can say that being emotional and having great sense of understanding and feeling is not a weak paint rather, it is one of the reasons of being a good human being. Think! If our society is devoid of emotions, would you call it a respiring society? Where there is not sign of love and affection, no bonding among people. Practicality has ruined the world and turned the values into selfishness. People who are not emotional are not likely to have a sense of conscience. They may feel no remorse, no guilt for causing harm to other’s emotions. Feeling of love is the only think which creates a strong bond among the people and if it is broken by selfishness, you yourself could understand if there exist any reason for living and sharing.
People who are emotional are having the quality to prove themselves that they belong to the finest species of god and are the creators of love and bonding. They will flourish one-day. They may not achieve the top-most position but certainly they will create top-most position in the heart of others. They will be kept forever in the heart of others! As we all know, one day we all have to leave this world. We must accept the real truth of life-Death.
Everything will be vanished and everything has its end. The fact that matters is just being a good human being who will reaming immortal in the heart of others.
A  person with an emotional heart will always remain in touch with the world and always be remembered by the people forever and ever for his emotional touch.

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